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Friday, July 29, 2005
Tuesday, June 14, 2005
PISSED OFF
Last weekend I pissed off Felicia and I spent the rest of the day apologizing and making up for my mistake. ALL DAY LONG... Like I always do when I piss her off... I apologize and try to make up for it any which way I can.
Last night it was her turn, she pissed me off. That was at about 9:00 pm last night... it is 1:33 pm today and as of right now, not a single apology, not a word, not even the slightest attempt to talk about it, make up for it, apologize or anything. She has not even spoken to me since. You would think she was the one pissed off at me. I feel like she's telling me you're the once pissed off, you get over it, you deal with it, it's your fucking problem. I am not doing anything about it!
The problem wasn't even that big, but now, after how she has been acting it has become something blown out of proportion and has made me feel like shit because obviously I don't deserve a fucking apology. Well fuck that! next time I piss her off, it's her problem, she has to get over it, she has to deal with it, it's her problem... I will not make any fucking attempt to apologize or make it up to her...
that is just fucking bullshit.
bye, I vented now!!
Last night it was her turn, she pissed me off. That was at about 9:00 pm last night... it is 1:33 pm today and as of right now, not a single apology, not a word, not even the slightest attempt to talk about it, make up for it, apologize or anything. She has not even spoken to me since. You would think she was the one pissed off at me. I feel like she's telling me you're the once pissed off, you get over it, you deal with it, it's your fucking problem. I am not doing anything about it!
The problem wasn't even that big, but now, after how she has been acting it has become something blown out of proportion and has made me feel like shit because obviously I don't deserve a fucking apology. Well fuck that! next time I piss her off, it's her problem, she has to get over it, she has to deal with it, it's her problem... I will not make any fucking attempt to apologize or make it up to her...
that is just fucking bullshit.
bye, I vented now!!
Monday, June 13, 2005
NEWSLETTER
I really need to keep up with this blog. Well, since I last wrote I have completed the first newsletter for SOTAC. TO be honest, it was not hard to do but trying to collect all the information for all the events around the world can take quite some time. I really enjoyed myself creating it and it felt good to spend the weekend doing something productive other than watching TV or playing video games... haha.
Today, again I was offered to do another article for the next issue. I hope the projects just keep coming.
Also, the printed article I wrote for the magazine will be released on July 1. SO again, if you're in the Charlotte area, pick it up.
The newsletter will be released on June 15 and you can sign up to receive it here
Dave from Donkey Punch also has a local magazine out now to promote the Charlotte area's music scene. The magazine is called Amps11 and the first issue was released earlier this month.
To celebrate, they are throwing a huge bash at The Room with live music by Poprocket, In-V, Virginia Reel & Truckstop Preachers. So, This is your chance to get out and support the local music scene, meet the magazine staff, and listen to some of CharlotteÂ’s freshest, hottest, bands. Best of all is that itÂ’s absolutely FREE and if you look really good, you might even have the chance to meet ME!
I have exactly one week before my promotion takes effect.Beginningng June 20, I will officially begin my new job in the client services department as a salaried employee. WHOOHOO! Between the magazine and my new job my hands are full. But as if that's not enough, Felicia and I joined Bally because I am a fat fuck! We had our first trainer session with Adam. He's our trainer, he's actually pretty cool and helpful. Next visit with him he is going to give me a meal plan, targets and a full personalize something or other plan.... To start with, my target is to get from 232lbs (YES< I KNOW I AM FAT, OK?!?!!) to 219lbs. He said this was pretty extreme but whatever I could do would benefit me. I really want to lose the weight and all because I want to be healthy for the girls. I get winded when I am playing with them for a significatn amount of time or when I am trying to carry them when we are out. My wieght is getting WAY out of hand. Felicia has a measley 7 lbs to lose before she moves on to the muscle toning stage of the training... damns you skinny peoples! damns you straing to heck!
ok, that's it
Today, again I was offered to do another article for the next issue. I hope the projects just keep coming.
Also, the printed article I wrote for the magazine will be released on July 1. SO again, if you're in the Charlotte area, pick it up.
The newsletter will be released on June 15 and you can sign up to receive it here
Dave from Donkey Punch also has a local magazine out now to promote the Charlotte area's music scene. The magazine is called Amps11 and the first issue was released earlier this month.
To celebrate, they are throwing a huge bash at The Room with live music by Poprocket, In-V, Virginia Reel & Truckstop Preachers. So, This is your chance to get out and support the local music scene, meet the magazine staff, and listen to some of CharlotteÂ’s freshest, hottest, bands. Best of all is that itÂ’s absolutely FREE and if you look really good, you might even have the chance to meet ME!
I have exactly one week before my promotion takes effect.Beginningng June 20, I will officially begin my new job in the client services department as a salaried employee. WHOOHOO! Between the magazine and my new job my hands are full. But as if that's not enough, Felicia and I joined Bally because I am a fat fuck! We had our first trainer session with Adam. He's our trainer, he's actually pretty cool and helpful. Next visit with him he is going to give me a meal plan, targets and a full personalize something or other plan.... To start with, my target is to get from 232lbs (YES< I KNOW I AM FAT, OK?!?!!) to 219lbs. He said this was pretty extreme but whatever I could do would benefit me. I really want to lose the weight and all because I want to be healthy for the girls. I get winded when I am playing with them for a significatn amount of time or when I am trying to carry them when we are out. My wieght is getting WAY out of hand. Felicia has a measley 7 lbs to lose before she moves on to the muscle toning stage of the training... damns you skinny peoples! damns you straing to heck!
ok, that's it
Wednesday, May 25, 2005
THE BEST DAY!!!!!
Today started out as any other. The girls were up, they were yelling and screaming, we had thinks to do and we were running late to do them. The house was a mess, the car was a mess and our lives overall were a mess. Same goes for work, I arrived to start the daily routine.
The first bit of good news was when Jameka offered me to create SOTAC's newsletter permanently. Apparently the person who did it before will no longer be doing it so I volunteered to do it. I think it would be fun and it will be great to pad my resume with. It seems very straightforward and not too complicated but I am not going to take it lightly of course. I can't wait to start working on it. Hopefully, this will be useful in the future.
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Another highlight of my day was spending my lunch hour with Felicia and the girls at the mall. We took them to the playground at Carolina Place Mall, sat eating a Cinnabon and a nice Mochalatta Chill and watching my two young daughters play... all in all, today really was a good day and on top of that I didn't even see a ghetto bird fly by!!!!!!
The first bit of good news was when Jameka offered me to create SOTAC's newsletter permanently. Apparently the person who did it before will no longer be doing it so I volunteered to do it. I think it would be fun and it will be great to pad my resume with. It seems very straightforward and not too complicated but I am not going to take it lightly of course. I can't wait to start working on it. Hopefully, this will be useful in the future.
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Another highlight of my day was spending my lunch hour with Felicia and the girls at the mall. We took them to the playground at Carolina Place Mall, sat eating a Cinnabon and a nice Mochalatta Chill and watching my two young daughters play... all in all, today really was a good day and on top of that I didn't even see a ghetto bird fly by!!!!!!
Tuesday, May 24, 2005
JUST RANTING AGAIN!
Last Saturday at about 1 pm, Jameka gave me another project for SOTAC. This time, the intern responsible for one of the sections in the newsletter failed to complete it. I volunteered to helped but she told me the article had to be done by that day! That was the same we were supposed to go to a party (we weren't going together but we were going to the same party). On top of that, I couldn't get started until later that afternoon because I had to take my mom to eat and do other random things with Felicia. I came back and started to RESEARCH the topic (Frida Kahlo) at about 6 pm and busted my ass until about 8 pm when I finished. Good thing I am the type of person who works best under pressure of a deadline other wise I would be screwed!!!
Anyway, if you guys want to read the article subscribe to the newsletter here.
The magazine is currently looking for sponsors for their next event in July. If you are interested in sponsoring the event, you can contact Jameka for details.
I was able to upload some of the pictures we took on the trip to the mountains.
Look at this, beauty at its best... and Fabi looks i-ight too.
Two of the three most precious things in my life.
As per usual, you will find the rest here.
That's it... time to go home (I did this from work).
Anyway, if you guys want to read the article subscribe to the newsletter here.
The magazine is currently looking for sponsors for their next event in July. If you are interested in sponsoring the event, you can contact Jameka for details.
I was able to upload some of the pictures we took on the trip to the mountains.
That's it... time to go home (I did this from work).
Monday, May 23, 2005
WHAT A WEEKEND!
Well, the date with Felicia went FLAWLESS!!!!! We had a great time. We started off with Frankie's and except for our mumbling waiter, lol, we had a lovely, romantic time. Veal, Lasagna, Pinot Noir, Stuffed Mushrooms and a whole lot more... we hate until we could not longer gaze lovingly into each other's eyes... LOL... that's what she says... gaze lovingly into each other's eyes. Of course, we do that until the food gets there... then it's leer morbidly into the bubbling, melting mozzarella!
After that we ended at the Red Door which if you don't know what it is, it made our evening very, very, very enjoyable.
On Sunday, Gene was arrested for DUI AGAIN! We spent most of our time trying to bail him out. LOL.
I need a beer now.
I am too tired to type anything else right now.
After that we ended at the Red Door which if you don't know what it is, it made our evening very, very, very enjoyable.
On Sunday, Gene was arrested for DUI AGAIN! We spent most of our time trying to bail him out. LOL.
I need a beer now.
I am too tired to type anything else right now.
Friday, May 20, 2005
ROMANTICAL DINNER (yes, I am aware it's not a word)
Well, today I made reservations for a romantic dinner for Felicia and myself at Frankie's Italian Grille. Just the two of us... no girls... no yelling, no screaming, no crying, no paying attention to anything but each other. THIS IS GOING TO ROCK!. Felicia loves Frankie's, it's her favorite restaurant but it's sorta steep so we can only go so often. They actually have good food and this is coming from someone who doesn't really like Italian food. We haven't had alone time like that in a long, long time... we need it more often. I miss my baby... all day, every day we're struggling with the girls that we rarely get to enjoy each other's company and when the girls finally go to sleep, we're way to tired to stay up ourselves to do anything... we just lay down and look straight at the TV. sad..........
Wednesday, May 18, 2005
Un Nouveau commencement
Well, well, well......
I decided to start writing on my blog again. No reason just thought I'd continue. Felicia asked me if I was ever going to since it really is an account of my life. She told me it would be nice to look back 5, 10 years from now and read this shit.... I think she's right. So I might as well keep doing it just for the hell of it.
I guess it will be pointless to say that a lot has happened since my last post taking into consideration that it was in February! We have pretty much recovered financially, Felicia is no longer at CIGNA and as of right now, we plan to try to make it work with one paycheck and her helping her dad with his business. Since Felicia separated from her company we have had more money left over (even after we splurge or trivial things) than ever before. So it is pretty safe to say things have been going good lately.
Felicia and I took a trip to the mountains late in February. It was supposed to be a romantic getaway from work, life, the girls, family and everything else. Unfortunately, we were unable to find suitable childcare for the Bean so she ended up in the damn trip with us! lol. Despite that minor (well, large) setback, the trip was good. Thanks to Michelle and Alex from the Donkey Punchers we received a nice little discount on our cabin at Swiss Mountain Village. The two-bedroom cabin was awesome and bigger than my damned apartment. The towns (Boone and Blowing Rock) near there are very small and since we had Fabi with us, we were unable to see or do the main attractions. Also, throughout most of our stay we were in the middle of a huge snowstorm which pretty much limited out accessibility to...well, anywhere.... All in all though it was a good trip, we could have done without the storm and Fabi, but it was well worth it. Word of advice my friends, if you are ever in the area...AT ALL COST avoid a place called Tijuana Fat's. Trust me! If that's Mexican food, then I'm KAMPUCHEAN.
The girls are growing big and strong. Larissa has been walking for the past two months and can say some words here and there like "Thank you", "Fabi" and "Elmo" lol. Fabianna is huge and can formulate her own sentences in both English and Spanish now. The girls have been giving so many headaches and gray hairs but we wouldn't change it for the worlds. They are the smartest, cutest babies in the world!!!!!! lol. The good thing about having them so close in age is that they play and keep each other entertained.
You can view some of their pics here.
Recently, I have been helping my friend Jameka with her modeling gigs. She had a photograph appraise some of Felicia's random snapshots and they guy said Felicia would make a great model. HELL YEAH BITCHES! My baby kicks ass and is finer than the MO'FO! Anyway, Jameka also co-own a local Charlotte magazine called SOTAC (State Of The Arts and Culture). Last month she offered me to write an article for the magazine's next issue. I thought it was a great opportunity and I took it. The magazine comes out July 1 and is available throughout Clt. If you leave in the area you should pick it up, it's only a measly $3!!!
click above to join her Yahoo group
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Well, that's it for now....
I decided to start writing on my blog again. No reason just thought I'd continue. Felicia asked me if I was ever going to since it really is an account of my life. She told me it would be nice to look back 5, 10 years from now and read this shit.... I think she's right. So I might as well keep doing it just for the hell of it.
I guess it will be pointless to say that a lot has happened since my last post taking into consideration that it was in February! We have pretty much recovered financially, Felicia is no longer at CIGNA and as of right now, we plan to try to make it work with one paycheck and her helping her dad with his business. Since Felicia separated from her company we have had more money left over (even after we splurge or trivial things) than ever before. So it is pretty safe to say things have been going good lately.
Felicia and I took a trip to the mountains late in February. It was supposed to be a romantic getaway from work, life, the girls, family and everything else. Unfortunately, we were unable to find suitable childcare for the Bean so she ended up in the damn trip with us! lol. Despite that minor (well, large) setback, the trip was good. Thanks to Michelle and Alex from the Donkey Punchers we received a nice little discount on our cabin at Swiss Mountain Village. The two-bedroom cabin was awesome and bigger than my damned apartment. The towns (Boone and Blowing Rock) near there are very small and since we had Fabi with us, we were unable to see or do the main attractions. Also, throughout most of our stay we were in the middle of a huge snowstorm which pretty much limited out accessibility to...well, anywhere.... All in all though it was a good trip, we could have done without the storm and Fabi, but it was well worth it. Word of advice my friends, if you are ever in the area...AT ALL COST avoid a place called Tijuana Fat's. Trust me! If that's Mexican food, then I'm KAMPUCHEAN.
The girls are growing big and strong. Larissa has been walking for the past two months and can say some words here and there like "Thank you", "Fabi" and "Elmo" lol. Fabianna is huge and can formulate her own sentences in both English and Spanish now. The girls have been giving so many headaches and gray hairs but we wouldn't change it for the worlds. They are the smartest, cutest babies in the world!!!!!! lol. The good thing about having them so close in age is that they play and keep each other entertained.
You can view some of their pics here.
Recently, I have been helping my friend Jameka with her modeling gigs. She had a photograph appraise some of Felicia's random snapshots and they guy said Felicia would make a great model. HELL YEAH BITCHES! My baby kicks ass and is finer than the MO'FO! Anyway, Jameka also co-own a local Charlotte magazine called SOTAC (State Of The Arts and Culture). Last month she offered me to write an article for the magazine's next issue. I thought it was a great opportunity and I took it. The magazine comes out July 1 and is available throughout Clt. If you leave in the area you should pick it up, it's only a measly $3!!!
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Well, that's it for now....
Tuesday, February 08, 2005
THE END?
I am going to see my friend Austin's band Middle Man on Saturday at the Wild Wing! Last week they pulled all four of my wisdom teeth and I've been miserable since. That's it.
I won't be updating this blog anytime soon. I don't want to say never because you're never supposed to say never.... never, never..... I just lost interest.
If you want to get a hold of me
you can email me at
soneji75@yahoo.com
javier.mejia@globalcompliance.com
or throuugh IM
Yahoo: soneji75
MSN: soneji
AOL: jsoneji1975
Laters!
I won't be updating this blog anytime soon. I don't want to say never because you're never supposed to say never.... never, never..... I just lost interest.
If you want to get a hold of me
you can email me at
soneji75@yahoo.com
javier.mejia@globalcompliance.com
or throuugh IM
Yahoo: soneji75
MSN: soneji
AOL: jsoneji1975
Laters!
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